For their first date, he took her to Float Away Cafe. Two years later, on her birthday (which happens to be on New Years eve) he proposed there. It had been a tradition in their relationship and a few years ago, it became a tradition for us as a family. We started going on every New Years Eve. To evaluate the year and talk about our resolutions moving forward. It was a time of celebration, love and amazing food. Our first year there, in 2009 Scott shared his resolutions for the year, ” This year,” he said, “I want to enjoy every moment of each and every day.” I remember being touched by what he said and to this day I am often reminded of it. You see just a few months earlier, our worlds were turned upside down. I remember the day like it was yesterday. I remember the weather, where I was, what I was doing… every detail. Scott had been diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s disease.
In the 2 years that followed, I watched his body slowly begin to fail him. To make him give up the things he loved. Even the most simplest of tasks. But…no matter what and without fail, Scott found a way to appreciate the little things. To capitalize on an opportunity for a joke. To put a smile on my face. To enjoy the moment. And to treasure it.
One month ago, just a few months after his 49th birthday, Scott unexpectedly passed away in his sleep.
As I sit here, with tear filled eyes and a burning hole in my heart, I am reminded of how grateful I am to have known him and the impact he had on my life. To not take anything for granted. To not sweat the small stuff. Because in the end, it really doesnt matter. We are not promised to tomorrow, but in the meantime his resolution stays close to my heart “to enjoy every moment of each and every day.”
Kelly,
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. My husband has MS and I understand the journey…
Your images capture his sweet spirit… thank you for sharing.
Kelly,
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry for your loss. My husband has MS and I understand the journey…
Your images capture his sweet spirit… thank you for sharing.